Tag: Everyday Racism

  • Feeling Judged: A Quiet Struggle in Shared Spaces

    “There’s something I’ve carried quietly…”

    I do not like going to the other parks.
    Whenever I go, there is always someone who points out your little things — things you “shouldn’t” be doing.

    It makes me feel like I don’t have the freedom to simply exist.
    To just be.

    Someone is always observing, or judging.

    That’s exactly how I feel when I go to parks with an English majority.
    There’s a quiet sense of not belonging. A tension. A subtle, invisible judgment.

    Reflection

    I share this not to blame, but to breathe.

    To remind myself that I’m not alone in this experience — and maybe someone out there feels the same, silently, painfully.

    And perhaps through this small sharing, we begin to take back our space — with honesty, with calm, and without apology.